We have all been to a wedding or had a part in one at some point in our lives. Each wedding brings a new comical story, crazy incident or dramatic situation no matter how much you try to avoid it. After being part of the industry for over 14 years, we have heard or witnessed our fair share. I must say that most of the incidents have been due to one of the following;
•Funds - the person(s) paying for the wedding believing they having the final say
•Time - a minimal time frame allotted at the venue
•Planning - those weddings ran by "Aunt Gertrude" or the friend that is either a wedding planner or wants to become one
So who does pay for a wedding these days? The tradition of the brides family paying for the wedding and the grooms family taking care of the rehearsal is still more common than you would think. Unfortunately, that sometimes goes to the mother or the father of the brides head (for lack of a better way of saying it)! Should they have the final say because they are forking over the cash? I do believe they should be a part of the whole process and their input considered within reason, but also be open to the bride and grooms wishes. A wedding should reflect the couple getting married, not their parents! 1970's cake and punch in the Church basement or fellowship hall isn't exactly what's "in" these days (sorry Mom)!
Paying for your own wedding tends to eliminate the "final say" issue, however, budgets are usually tight. Young couples paying for their weddings brings strict budgets, small venue time frames and lots of DIY projects. All of this combined can either be perfect if not overdone or a perfect nightmare if it is. All of those DIY centerpieces with 11 components equals one thing and that is TIME. Why DIY when you don't have to buy, simply RENT!
Can't afford more than the 6-8 hour time frame allotted with your venue? Keep the décor simple, plan to pay for additional time to set up or pay a company like us at Off Broad to coordinate and set up your event. If you don't, your guests may be walking into a reception hall that isn't ready!
So why not let your Aunt, relatives or friends run your wedding? From our experience, most tend to forget its not their wedding. Or, they are the only one who knows what the bride wants. It doesn't matter if there is a full layout, printed timeline and color coded boxes, the wedding is going to be done how they see fit. Now don't get me wrong, we have been proven wrong many times with relatives helping. However, we have seen many more that continue to keep the stories coming. Hire someone that you can relate easily to and know that your vision will come to life. Besides, do your friends and family that want to coordinate also want to miss the Ceremony? Wedding coordinators can come with a costly price tag, but most can work with your exact needs. From day-of to full service packages, let us provide you with an affordable and worthwhile estimate.
Please contact us for any assistance on your Wedding to-do list. Whether you are in the beginning stages or finalizing minor details, be sure to schedule your appointment to see our unique showroom today!
770.868.1084
offbroaddesign@aol.com
www.offbroaddesign.com
Also find us on Facebook & Pinterest!
No comments:
Post a Comment